Thursday, January 28, 2010

touched

I was considering this morning the power of "touch".  Our contact with each other physically can be in such a wide range of purposes....from violence and anger to expressions of tenderness and love.  It seems that "touch" is a major way that we express, communicate and impact others.  Research now shows that touching can help reduce pain and anxiety as well as provide comfort, boost hope and even accelerate healing.  Of course, like all forms of communication and interaction, there is a proper context for touch and it must be within the bounds of acceptable relationship.  But we have a need, from our first day to our last, to be held...hugged...greeted and encouraged in a direct way by others we know, trust and share life with.  I think that we need to be reminded that, even though we travel through our lives individually and we carry stresses, responsibilities, setbacks and victories within our individual hearts and minds.....we are greatly supported through touch as a reminder that we are travelling in the company of others, and we are not alone.  We need to touch and be touched and, of course, all touch is not physical.  I suppose the essence of healthy touch is unselfishness interest in others...sounds a lot like love.
 
Matthew 17:6 And when the disciples heard it, they fell on their faces and were greatly afraid. 7 But Jesus came and touched them and said, "Arise, and do not be afraid." 8 When they had lifted up their eyes, they saw no one but Jesus only.

 

blessings,

Rob Smith

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